With the world setting up shop on the internet, you can have anything you want, anytime, and from anywhere! In fact, if the algorithm gods do their work, you only have to think of an item before it pops up on your feed. And all there’s left to do is to click ‘buy’. Shopping has never been easier.
But is it easy on your pocket? On your space? On the planet? Perhaps not.
So, before you add to cart, here are three questions to ask yourself:
1. Do I need it?
Your mind will give you a dozen reasons why an item feels essential. But step back and take a few moments to really think whether the item will serve you well. Do you need it or is it just social media telling you that you do? It is easy to let advertisements and trends define your necessities. Try wish-listing it and return after a week. If you still feel the need for it, you’ll know it’s a conscious choice.
Sometimes, the excitement of getting a new item can improve your mood and distract you from negative emotions. Check in with yourself – are you shopping to meet a genuine need you have or is it just a way to take your mind off something? A dopamine treat for your stressed brain, perhaps? We’ve all been there. But the fact is, that joy is only temporary. And when it passes, you might even regret or feel guilty about an impulsive buy.
And most importantly, do you need it now? We all have aspirational selves. But it is always a good idea to wait until you have stepped into that version of yourself before you buy something for them. It’s your present self that deserves your love now!
2. Is there a price I don’t see?
A lovely crockery set at a 50% discount can sound like a great deal. But do you have the space to store it? That might be the catch. Most items carry an invisible cost in terms of time, effort, and maintenance. So, always look beyond the price tags (air dry, dry clean, hand wash – these tags on clothes speak money too!). Your belongings must add value to your life, not stress. And when you look out for these extra tags, you are looking out for yourself and your home too.
What is its environmental cost? Every item leaves an ecological footprint. The manufacturing process, the transportation, the packaging – everything has a cost that is usually paid by the planet. So, make sure you count that in. Be on the lookout for sustainable and eco-friendly options and alternatives. Responsible shopping is a win for you and the planet.
3. Is there an alternative?
Do I have to buy it? What about renting or borrowing it if it’s for a one-time project? Or is it possible to reuse or repair something I already own? Imagine the rush of satisfaction you’d get if you fixed something yourself! Yes, it might take a little more time and effort than a few simple clicks. But meaningful decisions and intentional choices, however small, can work wonders for you and the world around you.
So the next time you are about to click ‘buy’, take a moment. Ask the questions. Trust the answers.
Your space will thank you. And so will your future self.
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